Monday, November 14, 2011

As time goes by ..

Very often I wonder, how people differ. Everybody has different needs, wishes, wants and hopes. It's amazing how we were blessed to have a human life and strange how all of us have different meanings to life.

I always wonder whether all of us think the same (obviously we don't) but then I know we don't!! How is it we react the same when we're not connected? We need to analyse life in particular - our life and its meaning. As a kid I always imagined the world to be divided into small different planets (As in I always thought every country was in a different planet. Yes Imaginative weird kid) and that we would travel spaceships to reach a place. Well all that thanks to Cartoons and lots of skillful stories told by parents (How I miss that!)

Time passes by and you start realizing you're required to grow up. You need to change and get ready to FACE THE WORLD. As time goes by .. you are molded and fed with things you need to learn and other 100 unnecessary things. You not only learn how to forgive and forget but also keep grudges. You're expected to be a gentleman or a lady with etiquette's that mark you different from others. You're expected to out stand so many and yet there you are, nothing has really changed you, the little kid inside you still needs the same things from life. Family, friends and as you grow up a few more needs. As time goes by you have no time for yourself, you're constantly under a load.

Society decides whether to label you good or bad. If you are socially "Acceptable" you're the crowd who did the best. If you're socially "Unacceptable" you must have done something to piss someone off really bad, whether intentionally or not. As time goes by people choose to remember you for the deeds you've done, good or bad doesn't matter. As time goes by you will lose people close to you inevitably (by nature or destiny). As time goes by you discover life in deeper sense and by the time you do, you would have lost and gained so much, you would just wish you knew how to make things right.

As time goes by people change, for the better or worse (experiences matter). As time goes by you value relations and leave the kid inside you far behind and realize how time flew away.

Time is such an important yet neglected matter. We take it for granted or just don't bother, for a few of us we really bet on time but things don't go as planned. You learn one thing in life and that's TIME FLIES and LIFE GOES ON .....

Peace!
xoxoxo

10 comments:

  1. Nyc one tash!! mwah...

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  2. Nice flow of feelings. True how time flies. Nicely done.

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  3. Things that everyone wants but can never force into their life. It happens at its own pace though.

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  4. a different take on childhood...xpectations and weird demands from society... loved the way yu vividly portray childhood complexities

    thngs like aisa mat karo...Shaant raho... this is not good... Log kya kahenge types... Stuff wch all of us have gone thru definitely smetime

    Good writeup i must Say!!!

    :)

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  5. i loved the part where u said "we are required to grow up, to face the world".. this is something nobody wants... no one wants to grow up and no one wants to Face the world.
    and you so beautifully covered the most annoying things about life in so little words..its amazing!
    "We grow up.. society labels us..People change..but TIME FLIES and LIFE GOES ON ..."


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  6. nice one...
    I liked it!
    "Time passes by and you start realizing you're required to grow up. You need to change and get ready to FACE THE WORLD."
    I'm so going through this phase! :')
    "Society decides whether to label you good or bad" Quite true...

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  7. Mevan WickremasingheNovember 14, 2011 at 8:09 AM

    I love this post! Its so true and relevant and asks a lot of the same questions we have all at one time or the other, asked ourselves.

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  8. So bloody true ! Time flies and so does the innocence in each one of us vanishes ! Work like dogs all our lives , comfortably overlooking the fact that we are dying.. Slowly.. So just go out there .. Love it , live it !

    @anksibyl

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  9. Loved what have written here. Life is such ha mystery, so is this planet. So is this universe.
    I hate how people label everyone they come across, totally loathe that.
    Well written :)

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  10. nice one... its like Give me some sunshine,Give me some rain,Give me another chance,I wanna grow up once again...

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