What else breaks with a break up?

Break ups! The word itself sends an Ouch down your mind.. Doesn't it?

Break up has its own lil pain and its own lil pluses (You don't say?). Strange is, to many of us it sounds tragic and to many of you, it might sound freedom. This world is crooked I tell you.

Break up is not necessarily with just your girlfriend or boyfriend or love, it can be with your unspoken crush, your friend, your best friend or even your imaginary boyfriend (don't go judging me).

Love and heartbreaks, all that is common, very sad, very tragic and very hurting blah blah blah (sorry for the lack of enthusiasm, but been there done that sort of a thing and its pretty much an everyday thing) .. So my point being (yes I do have a point) the most heart breaking break up is .. When you break up with your best friend.. Yes.. Before you go saying whatever, give it a deep thought, what would you do waking up and not having that one person you wanna complain about your lousy day or bad relation, your dispute with family or crappy colleagues at work? What would life be if your friend didn't kick your butt and get you going when you are low, or when she/ he comforted you when you thought you couldn't get out of your deep pit of dark? What if you BROKE UP WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND? Would you ever be able to fix that feeling, or ever replace that one true friend?

My bets are, you cannot. You may replace love, boyfriends or girlfriends, jump from one crush to another but a best friend? My friend you are in for some deep serious shit if your best friend is gone.. To that matter, you know how it sucks when your BFF doesn't have time for you or suddenly starts behaving in this strange uncalled manner, isn't that like so damn annoying? When they don't understand that their tiny change in behavior is magnified cuz you're their best friend, they're dumb, why don't they just say what's bothering them instead? You wanna kick some sense in them and say "bitch don't you dare leave me or I'll haunt you after death" ..

Love is complex, it's scary. Friendship? It's easy, sorted but very hard to maintain and uphold.

Always love your best friend, because if I didn't wake up tomorrow, I want my best friend to know that even when I died, he/ she was one of the last people I thought of before Poofed. Lol!

Here's wishing, friendships always remain the most vital part of our life and they be a part of our life forever.

Peace.
Xoxo

If You Were....

(This One is for you Brenda, My BFF)

If you were a stranger, look what you've come to be,
My very own happiness, magical indeed.
If you were lost, look what you've found,
You and Me together, aren't we the most grand friends around?

If you were in pain, look what you've overcome,
Happiness surrounds you, it's just a tap around.
If you felt uneasy, tell me what's it about,
You never know Babeh, we'll both sort it out.

I never knew you'd matter so much, never at all,
But I can't imagine my life, without you at all.
Oceans across, we wonder when we'll meet,
I promise, I'll love you, forever will it be.

If you were star, I'd wait all day to see you,
If you were a star, I'd wish the sun never shone.
If you were a Wish, You're such a dream come true,
You are so dear, I fear losing you.

People may come, people may go,
It's a part of life, they leave a mark whenever they go.
You're my best friend, no one can change that,
You'll always find me by your side.

Lots of love,
Now and Forever,
Tash.

P.S. Love you to the moon and back. XD