Romance and Break-Ups

It's funny I should write a post on this (for those of you who know me SHUT UP) subject. Love, Romance, Courtship, Dating (and for those of them who're Internet dating) what can I say? It seems Love is in the air everyday (well am sure not everyday for the same people but randomly).

I see my friends, both girls and guys when they're love. It's such a cute sight. I mean really, they keep on blushing, smiling and talking sweet things about their new love all the time (I keep saying Oh wait, I know whats coming up for you next sucker). No really, they're so happy when they're into a new relationship, they're glowing, sweeter and more attentive. Everything is so smooth for people in love (GENERALLY) for the first few months. They go out for dates, long drives, dinners, movies, take breaks from their offices or even leaves, send bouquets, text messages, long calls and what not. Its all great till it reaches its saturation point. 

Once a girl starts with her "Please change your habit" or "Can't you miss the match for me?" (specially when its a ONE DAY match) and when a guy starts with his "Whom were you talking to" or "Who was that guy" or "Don't talk to that guy he doesn't seem nice" (specially since the other guy has been a friend longer than the douche you're dating currently) it starts adding up to the WTF list. Slowly they start obsessing and nagging (well in case of a few mature adults its still cool). Then comes the phase where they stop sending flowers or the frequency of dinners or movies or dates gets low (Obviously, they realize their pockets got lighter and " Ladki to patt gayi" agenda). Hence, the girl starts doubting and obsessing, hence the guy gets annoyed (oh yeah this is a typical chain of reactions) and this sets off some major drama. Now the Guy will start bitching about his girl saying she is ruining his life and dominating him (Duh!! Male ego) and the girl goes for her sympathy round of votes and gossips how the BF has changed and what she thinks (Oh yeah, over dramatic chick!).

A few friends of the GUY (his friends would even hit on his GF, or try to convince her, or play neutral! Yes friends mai bhi Variety hoti hai) tries to talk through her. And the GIRL's friends question and debate on morals and values and relationships (and also gives her own life example in relationships) after all this EPIC drama they either make up or break up after a lot of effort put by both the lovers. Oops, now ex lovers? (bahaha that's how weird love is? All the love disappears? All promises forgotten? All the feelings go KaPutt!?) After a while the guy says NO MORE RELATIONSHIPS for me and his friends take him out for  a party and BAM!! He meets this chick at the party and wants to be JUST friends!! There you go .. The Vicious circle of LOVE is About to start ALL OVER AGAIN (Hai na ekdum?)

The girl says no more relationships and finds comfort in talking about it to some guy and slowly develops feelings for him! Blah (same old same old). SO DEKHA BACHO? Pyaar vyaar sab dhoka hai, sab apna kaam karo! Lmao!

Love is a subject to risk. Please read the Conditions Apply* matter carefully.

P.S. - All this is what I see almost in all my friend's relationships Bahaha! Please don't take it personally, or do! Who cares! :P Keep it cool!

Peace!
xoxoxo