Who defines the society?

It is so mandatory for a few of us to watch what we talk. People in our society are so watchful of what others do. It's so very annoying and frustrating to keep a watch on what you do, how you behave or how you present yourself to others, and why all this? Just to entertain the damn society and keep ourselves in the good books.

People never realize what we go through. Seldom will they leave an opportunity to bring you down. Its like a lobsters world, whenever a Lobster tries to escape the small jar, the other lobsters will PULL IT DOWN. That's exactly how our society is, they are opportunists and sadists. None of them will be happy at your happiness or joys, but all of them will be happy when you're at you're lowest. People like to speculate, interfere and scandalize other's personal life. Leave alone good times, they wish they could do something to ruin the peaceful time you're having by starting some sort of unwanted gossip or drama. That's how decent the society is, That's where we live.

It's very sad to see people of higher society's judging randomly. I mean do they even take a look at their own messed up life? Similarly people from a lower society are not very receptive to broad notions. Either way everyone suffers. A young girl who wants to party late night with all good intentions of just hanging out till late cannot do so, and even if she does she has to sneakily get in the house. WHY? Because the pesky neighbor's or society are out there to ruin her happiness by talking utter crap about her being a slut, drunk, doping maybe, sleeping with someone or maybe even claiming she has an affair. The parents are well aware about their Girl and her intentions and they allow so, but when the rumors reach them, they unwillingly or maybe get carried away and stop such a life. Similarly the case with a guy.

Now not all girls and guys are the same. TRUE! But not all the guys and girls out there to ruin their family names either, right? I wish the society had some better business in life like LOOK AT THEIR OWN STUPID MESSED UP lives. People want to be left alone sometimes. The saddest part is when a person breaks down you never see people or even FRIENDS to that matter to help you out. Instead they say sad little things and speculate. They won't even say kind words or support you. Well then, lesson learnt. I mean yes we Cuss, some of them have tattoos and they drink and socialize. What is anybody's problem if they do? I mean why can't people let it be?

These people who define the society -- SCREW YOU!

What is the point of living in a society where you can't be yourself? And when you're yourself you're simply not accepted. In the end you go so confused in a way. It's because you don't know how to balance your life anymore. Do you pretend to be someone or be yourself, balancing life becomes such a STRESS! Whatever said and done, I would say, if you want to live your life, live it like you wish. People will judge, disrespect wear masks and say good things about you behind your back. Just do good, be honest to yourself. All the other people can go to hell, you're own judge.

Keep it cool! Live life king size cuz this too shall pass!
Peace
xoxoxo